Why do people argue if it’s better to be a younger or an older mother?  It’s really a moot point.  You are what you are.  I refuse to dwell on my past choices or the roads that led me to this point.   The bottom line is that I got married at 39, had IVF at 40, and gave birth six months before I turned  41.  At the age of 45 I am the proud, frazzled, and extremely happy mother of 4 year old twin girls.  I would like to connect with other women who find themselves on a similar road who would like to explore and share their
experiences!